The Fear of Being Stuck in a Box Called Marriage By Chaplain Doug Samples Many people in our American culture today see marriage as a BOX! You have to pick your BOX carefully because you’re stuck with it the rest of your life. If you picked a good BOX, you’re lucky… so enjoy it. If you picked a bad BOX, either… 1. Get out and look for a new one 2. Stay put and put up with it.